DAD STRONG // PRACTICAL GUIDE
Social Media Mistakes During a Custody Case.
Social posts can be copied, shared, misunderstood, or requested in discovery. The safest approach during active litigation is usually to post less and never discuss the case.
Do not discuss the case
Avoid allegations, hearing updates, settlement positions, documents, witnesses, attorneys, court staff, and judges.
Protect children
Do not post sensitive schedules, locations, school details, medical information, or content that embarrasses or pressures a child.
Avoid indirect attacks
Memes, vague accusations, hashtags, and comments by friends can still be connected to the dispute.
Do not destroy content
Deleting material after litigation begins can create preservation problems. Ask an attorney before removing or altering relevant content.
Review tags and privacy
Limit tagging, location sharing, public friend lists, and third-party app access. Privacy settings reduce exposure but do not make posts confidential.
Ask others not to post
Politely request that friends and relatives avoid discussing the case or posting the child without permission.
Preparation checklist
- Stop case-related posting
- Disable location sharing
- Review tags
- Preserve existing relevant content
- Protect children's information
- Ask family not to comment
Where to verify the rules
Use your official state court website and local court self-help center for current forms and procedures. You can also search LawHelp.org and the Legal Services Corporation directory for local legal-aid options.
Last reviewed: July 24, 2026